On completion of this chapter, the reader will be able to: 1. Explain the issues involved in adapting to transitions and role changes in later life. 2. Discuss changes in family structure and functions in society today. 3. Examine family relationships in later life. 4. Identify the range of caregiving situations and the potential challenges and opportunities of each. 5. Discuss nursing responses with older adults experiencing caregiver roles or other transitions. http://evolve.elsevier.com/Ebersole/TwdHlthAging Retirement, as we formerly knew it, has changed. Retirement is no longer just a few years of rest from the rigors of work before death. It is a developmental stage that may occupy 30 or more years of one’s life and involve many stages. The transitions are blurring, and the numerous patterns and styles of retiring have produced more varied experiences in retirement. With recent events that have seriously threatened pension security and portability, as well as a declining economy, more older people are remaining in the workforce. Forty-four percent of retirees work for pay at some point after retirement (see Chapter 1, Figure 1-7). Some do so because of economic need, whereas others have a desire to remain involved and productive. Obviously, health and financial status affect decisions and abilities to work or engage in new work opportunities. The baby boomers increasingly face the prospect of working longer, and 33% of this generation do not own assets and have little in savings or projected retirement income beyond Social Security. Eighty-three percent of baby boomers intend to keep working after retirement (Hooyman & Kiyak, 2011). Current research suggests that retirement has positive effects on life satisfaction and health, although this may vary depending on the individual’s circumstances. Predictors of retirement satisfaction are presented in Box 22-1. Decisions to retire are often based on financial resources, attitude toward work, family roles and responsibilities, the nature of the job, access to health insurance, chronological age, health, and self-perceptions of ability to adjust to retirement (Box 22-2). Retirement planning is advisable during early adulthood and essential in middle age. However, people differ in their focus on the past, present, and future and their realistic ability to “put away something” for future needs. Retirement preparation programs are usually aimed at employees with high levels of education and occupational status, those with private pension coverage, and government employees. Thus the people most in need of planning assistance may be those least likely to have any available, let alone the resources for an adequate retirement. Individuals who are retiring in poor health, culturally and racially diverse persons, and those in lower socioeconomic levels may experience greater concerns in retirement and may need specialized counseling. These groups are often neglected in retirement planning programs. • Who needs me, and what are my best opportunities? • What is the meaning of my life? • What should my life accomplish or contribute? • Am I financially secure for the rest of my life if I live 30 or more years? Retirement education plans are supplied through employers, group lectures, individual counseling, books. DVDs, and Internet resources. However, at this juncture and in light of the many hazards experienced by pre-retirees, planning is often insufficient. Many individuals have very high expectations for the final third of their lives. Although federal laws encourage increased participation in company-sponsored 401(k) plans, many of these plans are unreliable and rates of return have diminished considerably. The continued availability of Social Security is of great concern to current and future retirees (Chapter 20). Retirement security depends on the “three-legged stool” of Social Security pensions, savings, and investments (Stanford and Usita, 2002). Older people with disabilities, those who have lacked access to education or held low-paying jobs with no benefits, and those not eligible for Social Security are at economic risk during retirement years. Culturally and racially diverse older persons, women—especially widows and those divorced or never married—immigrants, and gay and lesbian men and women often face greater challenges related to adequate income and benefits in retirement. Unmarried women, particularly African Americans, face the most negative prospects for retirement now and for at least the next 20 years (Hooyman and Kiyak, 2011). Successful retirement adjustment depends on socialization needs, energy levels, health, adequate income, variety of interests, amount of self-esteem derived from work, presence of intimate relationships, social support, and general adaptability. Nurses may have the opportunity to work with people in different phases of retirement or participate in retirement education and counseling programs (Box 22-3). Talking with clients older than age 50 about retirement plans, providing anticipatory guidance about the transition to retirement, identifying those who may be at risk for lowered income and health concerns, and referring to appropriate resources for retirement planning and support are important nursing interventions. Losing a partner after a long, close, and satisfying relationship is the most difficult adjustment one can face, aside from the loss of a child. The loss of a spouse is a stage in the life course that can be anticipated but seldom is. Seventy-six percent of women over age 85 are widowed compared with 38% of men (Federal Interagency Forum on Aging, 2010). “Spousal bereavement is associated with significant distress, which has multifactorial ramifications for physical and mental health outcomes assessment” (Minton and Barron, 2008, p. 45). The death of a life partner is essentially a loss of self. The mourning is as much for oneself as for the individual who has died. A core part of oneself has died with the partner, and even with satisfactory grief resolution, that aspect of self will never return. Even those widows and widowers who reorganize their lives and invest in family, friends, and activities often find that many years later they still miss their “other half” profoundly. With the loss of the intimate partner, several changes occur simultaneously that involve social status, economics, and self-image. Individuals who have been self-confident and resilient seem to fare best. The transitional phase of grief, if handled appropriately, leads to the confirmation of a new identity, the end of one stage of life and the beginning of another (Chapter 23). Seldom in life is there such an abrupt and distinct breach that creates intense pain but offers the opportunity for the emergence of a new identity. Gender differences are found in the literature on widowhood. Bereaved husbands may be more socially and emotionally vulnerable. Suicide risk is highest among men over age 80 who have experienced the death of a spouse. Widowers adapt more slowly than widows to the loss of a spouse and often remarry quickly. Loneliness and the need to be cared for is a factor influencing widowers to seek out new partners. Association with family and friends, being members of a church community, and continuing to work or engage in activities can all be helpful in the adjustment period following the death of a wife. Common bereavement reactions of widowers are listed in Box 22-4 and should be discussed with male clients. Nurses working with the bereaved will need to review Lindemann’s classic grief studies to understand the initial somatic responses of the bereaved (Lindemann, 1944). Feelings of the bereaved one are not orderly or progressive; they are conflicted, ambivalent, suicidal, full of rage, and often suspicious. Widows and widowers may exhibit personality disorganization that would be considered mentally aberrant or frankly psychotic under other circumstances. Some people handle grief with less apparent decompensation. Grief reactions must be accepted as personally valid and useful evidences of healing. DeVries (2001) discusses the signs of ongoing bonds and connections with the deceased (e.g., dreaming of the deceased, ongoing daily communication, “checking in”) that persist long after death and counsels professionals to reexamine the idea that there is a timetable for “resolution” of grief. There are several tools that can be used to assess aspects of the bereavement process including coping, grief symptomatology, personal growth, continuing bonds, and health risk assessment (Minton and Barron, 2008). Nurses will interact with bereaved older people in many settings. Knowing the stages of transition to a new role as a widow or widower will be useful in determining interventions, although each individual is unique in this respect. Individuals respond to losses in ways that reflect the nature and meaning of the relationships as well as the unique characteristics of the bereaved. Patterns of adjustment are presented in Box 22-5. With adequate support, reintegration can be expected in two to four years. People with few familial or social supports may need professional help to get through the early months of grief in a way that will facilitate recovery. To support the grieving person, it is necessary to extend one’s own self to reconnect the severed person with a world of warmth and caring. No one nurse or family member can accomplish this task alone. Hundreds of small, caring gestures build strength and confidence in the grieving person’s ability and willingness to survive. Additional information about dying, death, and grief can be found in Chapter 23. The classic study of Lowenthal and Haven (1968) has been reviewed in detail and elaborated many times since its inception. The importance of caring relationships and the presence of a confidante as a buffer against “age-linked social losses” is demonstrated in the study. Maintaining a stable intimate relationship was more closely associated with good mental health and high morale than was a high level of activity or elevated role status. Individuals seem able to manage stresses if some relationships are close and sustaining. Increasingly evident is that a caring person may be a significant survival resource. Frequently nurses become the caring other in an older person’s life, especially among elders living in nursing homes (Touhy, 2001). Social bonding increases health status through as yet undetermined physiological pathways, though studies in psychoneuroimmunology are giving us clues. Social support is related to psychological and physical well-being, and participation in meaningful social activities is also a modifying factor that may offset the risk of dementia. Friends are often a significant source of support in late life. The majority of older people live with others, but the incidence of older people living alone is increasing, especially after age 75 when 23% of men and 50% of women live alone. Those living alone are most likely to be women, elders of color, the oldest-old, low-income older adults, and those in rural areas. The number of friends may decline, but the majority of older adults have at least one close friend with whom they maintain close contact, share confidences, and can turn to in an emergency (Hooyman and Kiyak, 2011). Friendships are often sustaining in the face of overwhelming circumstances. Friends provide the critical elements of satisfactory living that families may not, providing commitment and affection without judgment. Personality characteristics between friends are compatible because the relationships are chosen and caring is shared without obligation. Trust, demonstrations of caring, and mutual problem solving are important aspects of the friendships. Considering the obvious importance of friendship, it seems to be a neglected area of exploration and a seldom considered resource for professionals working with older people. Because close friendships have such influence on the sense of well-being of elders, anything done to sustain them or assist in building new friendships and social networks will be helpful. Generally, women tend to have more sustaining friendships than men do, and this factor contributes to resilience, a characteristic linked to successful aging (Hooyman and Kiyak, 2011). Nurses may include in their assessment questions about older individuals’ friendships and their importance and availability. Linking older adults to resources for social participation and meaningful activities is also an important intervention. Multigenerational families have grown by approximately 60% since 1990 (Hooyman & Kiyak, 2011). Growth of multigenerational households has accelerated during the economic downturn. From 2008 to 2010, the number of multigenerational households increased from 5.3% to 6.1% (American Association of Retired Persons (AARP), 2011). Older people without families, either by choice or circumstance, have created their own “families” through communal living with siblings, friends, or others. Indeed, it is not unusual for childless persons residing in long-term care facilities to refer to the staff as their new “family.” The marital or partnered relationship in the United States is a critical source of support for older people, and nearly 55% of the population age 65 and older is married and lives with a spouse. Although this relationship is often the most binding if it extends into late life, the chance of a couple going through old age together is exceedingly slim. Women over age 65 are three times as likely as men of the same age to be widowed. Men who survive their spouse into old age ordinarily have multiple opportunities to remarry if they wish. Even among the oldest-old, the majority of men are married (Federal Interagency Forum on Aging, 2010). A woman is less likely to have an opportunity for remarriage in late life. In the past, divorce was considered a stigmatizing event. Today, however, it is so common that a person is inclined to forget the ostracizing effects of divorce from 60 years ago. Divorced and separated (including married with spouse absent) older persons represented only 11.8% of all older persons in 2006 (Administration on Aging, 2008). However, this percentage has increased since 1980, when approximately 5.3% of the older population were divorced or separated with the spouse absent. There are large generational and individual differences in expectations from marriage, but older couples are becoming less likely to stay in an unsatisfactory marriage. Health care professionals must avoid making assumptions and be alert to the possibility of marital dissatisfaction in old age. Nurses should ask, “How would you describe your marriage?” As the variations in families grow, so do the types of coupled relationships. Among the types of couples we see today are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) couples. Although the number of LGBT people of any age has remained elusive, an estimated 3 million Americans over age 65 are LGBT with projections that this figure is likely to double by 2030 (Gelo, 2008). Many LGBT individuals are raising children, either alone or as part of a couple. Although these couples are less often seen in the aging population, they are still there but may not be obvious because of long-standing discrimination and fear. It is important to recognize that there are considerable differences in the experiences of younger LGBT individuals when compared to those who are older. Older LGBT individuals did not have the benefit of antidiscrimination laws and support for same-sex partners. They were also more likely to keep their sexual orientation and relationships “hidden.” Many older LGBT individuals have been part of a live-in couple at some time during their life, but as they age, they are more likely to live alone. Some may have developed social networks of friends, members of their family of origin, and the larger community but many lack support. Organizations that serve these communities need to enhance outreach and support mechanisms to enable these individuals to maintain independence and age safely and in good health (Wallace et al, 2011). The continued legal and policy barriers faced by LGBT elders contribute to the challenges for those in domestic partnerships as they age. Recent HHS recommendations addressing these issues may improve access to benefits in the future (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2011) (See Chapter 19). Healthy People 2020 includes a new section on LGBT health and efforts to improve health and address health disparities (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2010). Increasing numbers of same-sex couples are choosing to have families, and this will call for greater understanding of these “new” types of families, young and old. The majority of research has involved gay and lesbian couples, and much less is known about bisexual and transgender relationships. Much more knowledge of cohort, cultural, and generational differences among age groups is needed to understand the dramatic changes in the lives of gay and lesbian individuals in family lifestyles. The National Resource Center of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Aging has a new portal focused on caregiving resources for LGBT caregivers (http://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/resources/resources/CFM?t=1). Chapter 21 discusses the health concerns of LGBT older adults in more detail.
Relationships, Roles, and Transitions
Later Life Transitions
Retirement
Retirement Planning
Special Considerations in Retirement
Promoting Healthy Aging: Implications for Gerontological Nursing
Death of a Spouse
Promoting Healthy Aging: Implications for Gerontological Nursing
Assessment
Interventions
Relationships in Later Life
Friendships
Families
Types of Families
Traditional Couples
Divorce
Nontraditional Couples
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