Chapter 1 Understand your current attitude, and the reasons for your attitude. Explain the benefits of being organized. Develop a plan for managing your time. Differentiate between honesty and integrity. Define adaptability as an effective change strategy. Recognize that flexibility can lead to positive results. Analyze the origins of your attitude. Explain why people get and defend negative attitudes. Know the mechanics of changing your attitude. Choose the attitude you want to take to work. Define self-talk and how it affects you. List five strategies you can implement to make your attitude more positive. Adopt a strategy for personally managing change. Keep a journal and decide how you are going to use this tool. To change the messages you may be sending yourself, stop and ask yourself this: “What are you thinking?” Everyone has chatter going on in their heads, conversations with yourself, personal observations, judgments, opinions, commentaries. This is your self-talk. Self-talk can reinforce negative attitudes or positive attitudes. So begin by becoming aware of your own self-talk. What are you saying to yourself? In general, is your self-talk critical, mean-spirited or judgmental? Or, in general, is it tolerant, generous or forgiving? Are you suspicious of people and their motives, or do you trust in people and believe their intentions are largely good? People with positive attitudes are not burdened by self-limiting beliefs; instead, they focus on giving and receiving positive messages; they seek out contact with other positive people. Typical positive messages can be seen in Box 1-1. Fortunately, you will find many aspects of your work to be quite positive and enjoyable. As a health care professional, with distinctive knowledge and unique skills, you will enjoy much of what you do at work every day. You are likely to find meaning in your everyday duties of helping others with health problems. You will also probably look forward to seeing your co-workers at work everyday. There will be fun events, morale-building activities, celebrations, and team meetings to look forward to (Figure 1-1). You are in total charge of your attitude. That reality is very liberating! * First, plan for the meeting. Make sure you get the agenda and look it over. Is there any research you can do ahead of time, to be better prepared or actually contribute to the meeting? Consider who is coming. Ask yourself, who will lead this meeting, and who will be influential there? Are there some people who always think alike, or others who usually disagree? Who are the positive people, and who are the negative people? Is there anyone who is likely to try to sabotage the meeting? You are a health professional partly because you value relationships and have insight into others. * Second, plan your own actions, involvement, comments, and role. This process is called visualization (Figure 1-2). Use your perceptual senses to imagine how the meeting will go, and how you will behave there. Smell the coffee, see the overhead lighting, hear the murmurs and chatting as people arrive, see the leader’s body language and meeting materials. Then plan for your own role and what outcomes you would like to see. The meeting will not go exactly as you visualized it, but you will be amazed at how much it turned out to be similar to your visualization, if you have done the preparation based on what you should know and understand your role in making desirable outcomes reality. Many times, impending change generates a swirl of rumors. If you hear a rumor that concerns you, it is perfectly appropriate to discuss this rumor with your manager. This not only puts your mind at ease but also helps your manager be more effective in managing the change; either by debunking the rumor or providing information about the rumor that will make the change easier for everyone to accept. Box 1-2 explains the stages people typically go through in the process of accepting change. You may notice that, since change involves loss, the stages are not unlike the stages of grieving. Self-talk is one way to have a conversation with yourself. Your journal is another way, and it has the advantage of being written down, which reinforces your thoughts and determination. Throughout this book, we challenge you to keep a journal, to preserve your thoughts. By keeping a journal, you can map your journey of change and then revisit significant moments along the way, remind yourself of your aspirations and your strengths, and build on your earlier insights. At the end of this term, your journal will serve as a living change document to guide you in your future development. As a start, 10 steps to a positive mental attitude appear in Box 1-3. Visualize the day ahead of time. Identify daily priorities with an appropriate sense of what is most important and a realistic sense of the time demand involved. Organize plans in a holistic and detailed manner. Choose and use some form of manual or electronic time management system that includes daily goals and a daily “to-do” list that puts priorities in order. Anticipate your next move to remain ahead of the game. Act proactively instead of reactively throughout the work day. Organization is thought to be a function of the left side of the brain, while creativity is believed to be a function of the right side of the brain. Depending on your particular brain dominance, you may be naturally organized or struggle with managing tasks, projects, and meeting deadlines. Box 1-4 offers some tips for organizing and managing your day.
Who Are You?
Adopting a Positive Mental Attitude
Learning Objectives for Adopting a Positive Mental Attitude
Mental Attitudes
Positive Mental Attitudes
Changing Negative Realities to Positive Realities at Work
Create Positive Expectations
Embrace Change
Keep a Journal
Managing Your Time and Organizing Your Life
Learning Objectives for Managing your Time and Organizing your Life
Organizing from the Inside Out